One is loved not for one’s appearance (although, of course, one should look good in general), but first of all for one’s ENERGETICS.

For strength, for views, for interests and passions, for self-respect and independence, for right actions.

For activity and growth, maturity.

For simplicity. For kindness. For love, positivity.

For respect and interest to life, to people.

That is the energetics that we need to work on. Work on your personality and life. And everything will be fine.

If a man is strong and mature (as a person), his life is always good. And there is a lot in it, it’s rich.

But good energetics is not enough.

It should also be the energetics “IN UNISON”.

Sometimes a man seems like a good and strong person, but your contact with him does not work or he does not attract you. This is normal!

When it is “in unison”, YOURS, it feels very different than when you pretend, idealize, or talk yourself into it.

Do you remember, there’s a key to every lock?

The main criterion is that you don’t have to talk yourself into it.

It should be comfortable, it should be joyful, it should attract you. There should be no rejection or fatigue.

Surround yourself with people “in unison” – and life becomes many times more enjoyable.

– Don’t pull clients into working relationships if you feel any serious difference in your approach to life and work.

– Don’t struggle with anyone, don’t try to change or save the “flawed.

– Don’t try to win the love of those who are indifferent to you.

Contact mostly with those who sympathize with you, who like you, and who are pleasant to you.

And things will even out, and become exactly as they should be.